Be Different
Adventures of a Free-Range Aspergian with Practical Advice for Aspergians, Misfits, Families & Teachers
In his bestselling memoir, Look Me in the Eye, John Elder Robison described growing up with Autism Spectrum Disorder at a time when the diagnosis didn’t exist. He was intelligent but socially isolated; his talents won him jobs with toy makers and rock bands but did little to endear him to authority figures and classmates, who were put off by his inclination to blurt out non sequiturs and avoid eye contact.
By the time he was diagnosed at age forty, John had already developed a myriad of coping strategies that helped him achieve a seemingly normal, even highly successful, life.
In each story, he offers practical advice for anyone who feels “different” on how to improve the weak communication and social skills that keep so many people from taking full advantage of their often remarkable gifts. With his trademark honesty and unapologetic eccentricity, Robison addresses questions like:
• How to read others and follow their behaviors when in uncertain social situations
• Why manners matter
• How to harness your powers of concentration to master difficult skills
• How to deal with bullies
• When to make an effort to fit in, and when to embrace eccentricity
• How to identify special gifts and use them to your advantage
Every person has something unique to offer the world, and every person has the capacity to create strong, loving bonds with their friends and family. Be Different will help readers and those they love find their path to success.
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Kirkus
February 15, 2011
A guide to making the most of living with Asperger's Syndrome.
Aspergian Robison (Look Me In the Eye: My Life with Asperger's, 2007) offers down-to-earth life advice for his "Aspie" peers and their friends, families and teachers. The author grew up never fully understanding why he, an intelligent, capable man, could never quite fit in. It was only when he was diagnosed with Asperger's at age 40 that he realized his quirkiness arose from having been born with a mind that made connections in ways different from what he calls "nypicals" —people with neurotypical or "normal" brains. Unlike so many other Aspergians who end up alienated, alone and unemployed, Robison gradually found ways to overcome his social and communication deficits and transform his differences—such as superior concentration, abstract reasoning and mechanical skills—into gifts. Beginning with a chapter that gives a human face—his own—to the "restricted and repetitive patterns of behavior" associated with Asperger's, Robison proceeds with a discussion of the thornier interpersonal issues Aspergians face. Compensation for all or most of these challenges is possible, argues the author, by combining the Aspergian strength of logical analysis with observation, an awareness of past experiences and practice. Learning to live in a "nypical" world was not easy for the author—"[i]t's been a lifetime job for me"—but the rewards have made his efforts undeniably worthwhile.
Recommended reading for anyone seeking to understand Aspergian children and adults.
(COPYRIGHT (2011) KIRKUS REVIEWS/NIELSEN BUSINESS MEDIA, INC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.)
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Library Journal
November 1, 2010
We first met Robison in brother Augusten Burroughs's eye-popping Running with Scissors. Then Robison himself spoke up, detailing his life with Asperger's syndrome in the best-selling Look Me in the Eye. Here he uses examples from his own life to advise Aspergians and their parents--including his "Mom Army" of over 10,000 online followers--and also shares recent scientific research. There's an audience; this syndrome is increasingly in the news.
Copyright 2010 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.
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Booklist
March 1, 2011
Aspergers syndrome inhabits a particular niche with regard to treatment because it is characterized by symptomology that can be difficult to pinpoint, even in the somewhat less-than-exact art of psychological diagnosis. (The trainwreck-in-progress that is the DSM-5the next edition of the diagnosis bibleis rumored to fold Aspergers into a larger autism spectrum category.) RobisonAspergian author of the well-received memoir Look Me in the Eye (2007)does the Aspergers community a service in this eclectic book of essays on his experiences navigating social mores. He reflects on the bittersweet insights hes gained about his own lifehaving lived for years with Aspergers before the syndrome had been identifiedand provides incredibly helpful advice to families learning to live with these challenges. Robisons clear writing provides substantial insight into the mind of someone whose disorder makes clarity very, very difficult. While its important to recognize that this is the account of one person with Aspergers, and as such isnt about everyone with Aspergers, it is a valuable read nonetheless.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2011, American Library Association.) -
Library Journal
April 1, 2011
In his second autobiographic work on Asperger's syndrome (a milder version of autism), following his Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger's, Robison includes additional episodes while providing "actionable advice" intended to help explain Asperger's. He uses short chapters to showcase different character traits of Asperger's; some are quite strong, such as his account of his nonemotional reaction to a horrific automobile accident. Many of the chapters, however, are weak and lack real value. He discusses at great length and with no clear purpose why the nicknames he provides are more appropriate than given names. The book has a good deal of useful content but repeats his chronological first work in a topical fashion. Many of the stories appear in both books, and there is only a bit of new material here for readers of his first title. VERDICT While Robison provides a nice understanding of the Asperger's mind, this follow-up does not adequately supplement his previous work. It is recommended only for libraries with comprehensive autism and Asperger's collections. Others should have Look Me in the Eye.--Corey Seeman, Univ. of Michigan Lib., Ann Arbor
Copyright 2011 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.
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Kirkus
February 15, 2011
A guide to making the most of living with Asperger's Syndrome.
Aspergian Robison (Look Me In the Eye: My Life with Asperger's, 2007) offers down-to-earth life advice for his "Aspie" peers and their friends, families and teachers. The author grew up never fully understanding why he, an intelligent, capable man, could never quite fit in. It was only when he was diagnosed with Asperger's at age 40 that he realized his quirkiness arose from having been born with a mind that made connections in ways different from what he calls "nypicals" --people with neurotypical or "normal" brains. Unlike so many other Aspergians who end up alienated, alone and unemployed, Robison gradually found ways to overcome his social and communication deficits and transform his differences--such as superior concentration, abstract reasoning and mechanical skills--into gifts. Beginning with a chapter that gives a human face--his own--to the "restricted and repetitive patterns of behavior" associated with Asperger's, Robison proceeds with a discussion of the thornier interpersonal issues Aspergians face. Compensation for all or most of these challenges is possible, argues the author, by combining the Aspergian strength of logical analysis with observation, an awareness of past experiences and practice. Learning to live in a "nypical" world was not easy for the author--"[i]t's been a lifetime job for me"--but the rewards have made his efforts undeniably worthwhile.
Recommended reading for anyone seeking to understand Aspergian children and adults.
(COPYRIGHT (2011) KIRKUS REVIEWS/NIELSEN BUSINESS MEDIA, INC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.)
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